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MELECKI: Hazing incident reveals hushed reality

By Sarah Melecki

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Published: Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Updated: Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Congratulations to the men of Sigma Chi’s Alpha Epsilon chapter – you’ve made the news!

I’m sure your parents must be so proud, clipping articles and recording newscasts that highlight the hazing your chapter has been taking part in. After all, it isn’t every day when a proud mother gets to brag to her friends about her son’s involvement in forced alcohol abuse, paddle beatings and, my personal favorite, sexual assault.

But it only gets better. Check out the punishments eight of your members could receive if they are found guilty of hazing and procuring alcohol for minors.

Hazing is a class II misdemeanor, according to coverage of your fraternity’s stellar activities in yesterday’s Lincoln Journal Star, meaning your boys are looking at a possible six months in jail, a $1000 fine or both.

Procuring alcohol for minors, prohibited by section 53-180 of the Nebraska Statutes, is likely to result in a few more days in jail or an increased fine if the defendants are found guilty.

While your fraternity brothers have yet to be charged with sexual assault, the allegations are extremely serious. So the story goes, you boys were having an innocent little orgy with a stripper when one of your pledges was handcuffed and blindfolded, no doubt to increase the pleasure of the rest of you, who were watching all around.

When a few of your members decided to pressure the stripper into anally penetrating the pledge with a vibrator, those members made themselves liable for sexual assault, which is Nebraska’s legal way of saying these guys were involved in raping your pledge.

This is because sexual assault in the first degree (the most serious form of sexual assault) is defined as subjecting another person to sexual penetration without the victim’s consent, with knowledge that the victim was mentally or physically incapable of resisting the conduct, or with a minor.

Even though the fraternity brothers did not penetrate the victim themselves, the word “subjecting” means that a judge will have the right to interpret the law in accordance with the incident; if the instigation they provided to the primary assaulter is subjection or simply some kind of odd group sex fantasy.

But the rest of the definition is clear. Not only was the victim handcuffed, which made him physically incapable of resisting the conduct, but the victim was also sexually penetrated without his consent.Your fraternity brothers are looking at possible charges of sexual assault in the first degree, a Class II felony according to Nebraska Statute 28-319, which carries a maximum sentence of fifty years in prison and a minimum one-year prison sentence.

While the University of Nebraksa-Lincoln has been doing a great job investigating this particular incident, the university as a whole doesn’t do much to prevent these types of behaviors. Hazing is, of course, illegal in Nebraska and all greek organizations are made aware of this law. But there doesn’t appear to be any sort of regulation for continued education throughout the semester.

Greek Affairs organizes two events each year to address issues of hazing and sexual assault – one for chapter presidents, risk management chairs, and chapter advisers, the other for all new members of greek organizations. While these events may be great, they are few and far between.

The UNL Web site doesn’t bring up any other events for greek chapters to take part in that serve as deterrents for hazing and sexual assault.

I’m not picking on the greek system. I know that there are a lot of great sorority and fraternity members who don’t engage in this type of behavior. But statistics show that members of sororities and fraternities are much more likely than the rest of the collegiate population to abuse or be abused. And because Sigma Chi was kind enough to serve as an example, I’ll focus on them.

The book “Sexual Assault on the College Campus” highlights the issue, citing, for example, that more than forty percent of women in sororities had been the victims of sexual aggression since entering college (the average is between fifteen and twenty-five percent). The book goes on to discuss the prevalence of sexual assaults at fraternity houses and parties.

So, members of Sigma Chi, what I really want to do is thank you for getting caught engaging in behavior that is happening all over campus, oftentimes within the greek system. Thanks for making headlines this week, because now that the story is out, the university is going to have to do something about this issue.

The reality is that at UNL and every other university, hazing and sexual assault happen all the time but are hushed so that the school doesn’t get a bad reputation.

I challenge UNL to actually make a big deal about these issues. That’s the only way to make our university, or any other, more safe.

Sarah Melecki is a junior Political Science and Philosophy major. Reach her at sarahmelecki@dailynebraskan.com

 

Comments

27 comments
Chevelle
Tue Apr 28 2009 12:58
This is a prime example of why Greeks are hated everywhere. You claim to be such upstanding gentleman and then you go and pull this crap. This kid is paying money to be accepted into your little club, looking for the approval of the rest of the frat members, and you shove a vibrator up his ass. Great job guys. You truly portray what it means to be an upstanding gentlemen.
Your name
Sun Apr 26 2009 22:04
If it has to be repeated, so be it. Anyone who believes the vibrator was used on only one person and was decontaminated between use is only fooling themselves. Anyone who has engaged in intimate contact with anyone in this house should seek immediate, confidential testing for HIV, Hep B and other sexually transmitted diseases. Contact UNL student health or the LLCHD 441-8000 for assistance
Wizard of Smart
Sat Apr 25 2009 16:15
Congratulations to Sarah Melecki – you have proved that the DN is incapable of being fair and covering both sides of the story.

Instead, like a puppet for the agenda-driven DN, she writes a piece that offers nothing but a rant.

Sara, how long were you waiting for a fraternity to be caught “hazing” so you could finally rant about how much you despise the greek system?

The way this puff piece was written, all you had to do was fill in the blank with whichever fraternity got “caught.” Voila, there is your “cookie-cutter” article that takes no skill in writing.

James is a Douche
Sat Apr 25 2009 14:52
You claim frat boys get help from daddy's connections. The only daddy coming to the rescue here is the daddy of the pledge by being on channel 3 news claiming how "traumatized" his little boy is.

The only "little boy" is the pledge who couldn't man up and leave the house if he didn't like it. He also didn't man up and resist the actions of the stripper. No other fraternity brothers held him down. He bent over and took it all on his own.

He also couldn't take having wet toilet paper being thrown at him and then having the other guys buy a stripper and beer for him. Any normal 18-19 year old male would love free strippers and beer.

The little boy couldn't handle the "hazing" which is just a big show or a joke. Nobody there wants to genuinely harm anybody.

There are men his age that have killed people in war for this country and he can't even handle standing in a cold shower.

James Zank
Sat Apr 25 2009 12:11
So Sigma Chi is in trouble...AGAIN. They got into to trouble when I attended UNL years ago for burning crosses in civil war uniforms and feigned ignorance of the historical significance of the action as a terrorist threat, and they went on their merry way. Now the same house, different group of little boys (masquerading as men)are in hot water agin and they attack anyone who call them out for the deviants they are. The blame the vicitms (The kid didn't belong in Sigma Chi, probably spike his drink with hot sauce, the stripper PAID to rape the handcuffed pledge...) PUH_LEEZE! The "men" of UNL's Sigma Chi house who engaged or tolerated this behavior should confine these activities to their own sex lives go rent some BDSM videos or make them with one another if they need cheap thrills. The University should really seriously question whether want the liability of having such an organization tarnishing the University's image, and that of the good name of UNL's Greek System. (And, no boo-hoo, I'm not a disgruntled wannabe Greek. Made my way through UNL without fraternal marching orders, and daddy's connections.
Matt
Sat Apr 25 2009 02:31
Sorry, my last post was unclear, I watched video taken via hidden camera (that I provided) of several fraternity initiations, and I only say that they should be available publicly is because many Greek organizations have the deranged idea that hazing is ok because "it builds community." I am glad that I have never, nor will I ever, have friends who consider it crucial to share a bond of mutual humiliation.

That said, if there is no hazing in these initiations, then the organizations have nothing to fear by recording and releasing the footage of them. The rituals involved were created simply to give that secret club feeling that school children also seek by setting passwords to get into their fort. Some of us out grow that stage; others apparently do not.

Matt is an Idiot and Liar
Fri Apr 24 2009 16:48
Matt,

You have never been to a fraternity initiation because the only people that go to these are new and current members. They do not let outsiders watch.

A private organization has no obligation to show any activity they do.

There are a number of secret activities and decisions which take place in your everyday life which you are not privy.

Matt
Fri Apr 24 2009 15:10
No I have witnessed a fraternity initiation in person, but I have seen some filmed with hidden cameras, and almost all of them involve hazing of some sort, which is completely uncalled for. The only solution is an outside observer being privy to these unnecessarily private occurrences. Unless there is a reason they should be secret, beyond the juvenile secret club complex a lot of Greeks have.
eCommando
Thu Apr 23 2009 15:34
Sarah Melecki displays a very unprofessionally tone in her editorial that would never fly at a real newspaper that has integrity.
Whoops
Thu Apr 23 2009 14:36
Matt:

Have you asked to witness an initiation ritual?

No? Then STFU.

Brian
Thu Apr 23 2009 14:04
This is why I never joined a frat. ...pay a lot of money to live in a disgusting dirty hole of a house, then be bullied, assaulted, forced to steal, extorted for money, alcohol poisoned and butt raped all while dancing around a burning cross while shooting bottle rockets. SICK, REALLY SICK. These guys are only united in their depravity and are brothers in humiliation. These people have no real honor.
Matt
Thu Apr 23 2009 13:23
If there is no hazing in these Greek houses, then publish videos of your pledges during their initiations, including all rituals involved. There is no need for the secrecy that the system currently operates with, and any change toward openness is a change for the better.

To all the Greeks, I have one question, if you have nothing to hide, then why do you?

ProudGreek
Thu Apr 23 2009 09:40
Bottom line...is what Sigma Chi is accused of horrible, yes. Is it illegal, yes. Did they have alcohol in their house, yes. Are all fraternities like this, NO! I'm a young alumnus of the fraternity at UNL, and I and my brothers never once found ourselves even close to any situation like this. If I had ever found myself in this type of situation I would have quit b/c this is not what I or my fraternity stand for, but here I am years later, still proud of my fraternity and my experience. While every few years a fraternity at UNL does something really stupid, the truth is that this behavior is in the extremely small minority.

And to the author of the article. Yes while UNL may only have one or two anti hazing programs a year, the chapters at UNL are all part of larger national organizations who have professional staff who monitor and education chapters all across the nation. When I was an undergrad we were continuously reminded by our national organization of anti hazing policies. So the message is and has been loud and clear for quite some time. Sigma Chi may have chose not to listen to UNL and their national org, and could pay the price now. But don't convict the entire Greek System of their crimes when the vast majority of us are doing things the right way.

Whoops!
Thu Apr 23 2009 04:50
By the way, UNL Greek... Sigma Chi is not the oldest house on campus. Not by a longshot.

The oldest house on campus is Phi Delta Theta. After that is Delta Upsilon. After that *i think* Might be Sigma Phi Epsilon.

Get your facts right.

Yo Name Son
Thu Apr 23 2009 04:47
No worries mates, The writer here is just mad because she didn't get bidded with a sorority, and therefore wasn't able to fufill her lesbian fantasies.

She should probably take out her frustrations on something else though :(

Greek Guy
Thu Apr 23 2009 04:44
This is a piece of slime ball crap written by a no-talent hack. To sit there and insinuate that because one fraternity has partaken in what can be said as the worst bit of hazing this region has seen in quite some time, she then extrapolates to something that is a regular occurance across the greek system as a whole? what a egotistical ass. Where is your evidence?

Oh well, everyone knows that opinion is not real journalism anyway...

P.S: And you guys wonder why people only read the DN for the crosswords.

UNL Greek
Thu Apr 23 2009 01:32
I have read the police report and basically everything you conjured up in that last comment is completely false. I don't care what fraternity you're in; you should at least have some respect for the Greek community as a whole and not be willing to bail on a fraternity that is in need of a little support at the present moment.
Opining
Wed Apr 22 2009 23:17
My fraternity would never do anything like this.

While I know there are other fraternities not as righteous as mine, the Greek system is far superior to the alternative. While Sigma Chi may have been an exception to our good example for all students, they are not the norm. Besides, there is evidence that the hooker paid the Sigma Chi boys to have the opportunity to be part of their initiation event. Mind you, it wasn’t hazing, she just got out of control, and there was no way the Sigma Chi boys could have stopped her. In fact, there is an investigation into whether one of the off-campus houses paid her off to go in and embarrass Sigma Chi so they could get them kicked out of their house and let the off-campus houses have a chance at moving on campus. The kid that was hazed should have known he didn’t belong, he just didn’t live up to Sigma Chi or even any Greek standard, because the Greeks don’t want no freaks. He probably was the one that put the hot sauce in the alcohol, though he’ll never admit it. But we’re all Innocence!

(They say the rats love to eat cheese with their whine, does anyone have some left-over velveta in their fridge?)

UNL Greek
Wed Apr 22 2009 16:56
What is really sad is that when this goes to court and it is revealed the the "rape victim" lied to police under oath, it won't make headlines. The men of Sigma Chi would be lucky to even have it mentioned underneath the listing of garage sales. The media has proved them guilty and now they must unnecessarily work to prove the falsehoods and lies that they have been the target of.
Concerned Alum
Wed Apr 22 2009 16:16
End Fraternal hazing now,

To this commentator I submit the following:

Without* a strong greek presence on UNL's campus (yes I was there several years ago for four of the better years of my life), the campus would loss its traditions, history, and proactive students. Let's face it and tell it how it is. Greeks are far more involved in everything campus based except dorms. Greeks always had great turn out to their blocks for football games (doing away with blocks shows a university who refuses to know what is best for students and the crowds at memorial standium....but I digress), they have always maintained the majority of positions in well respected groups like the Innocence Society, Mortar Board, and HomeComing Courts. So let's do away with all greek houses, why? If you are disgruntled because you didn't get into the one you wanted, please quit crying over spilled milk and accept it already. My fraternity experience was great and I still maintain those relationships today (much like CCM in Orange County). Fraternities and Sororities are great places to grow as people. Fraternities and Sororities anchor the campus and its traditions. Without Fraternities and Sororities, homecoming would fail to be what it is now (which isn't a whole lot, but it'd be far worse). Let's quit beating up on fellow students who you are just jealous of. No one in college is really mature enough to never mess up. You'll understand that in a few years I'm sure. So lets focus on any potential perpetrators of crime (if we have to focus on this incident at all because it likely doesn't affect anyone not a member of Sigma Chi), and leave it at that.







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